My daughter and her family are enjoying spring break this week and are in Gatlinburg, TN. I spoke to her tonight and they are, indeed, enjoying themselves. I will get photos next week, I'm sure and can't help but share a few here.
My daughter and her family are enjoying spring break this week and are in Gatlinburg, TN. I spoke to her tonight and they are, indeed, enjoying themselves. I will get photos next week, I'm sure and can't help but share a few here.
The picture above is how he REALLY felt. I don't care how old and big he thinks he is, he is still my "baby". I hate to see him cry. His ear was hurting and the headgear was bothering it.
Mom's lap always makes everything feel better, though.
Since the State Meet was over for the year (and we KNOW who the Ky. State Wrestling Champion is this year) his coach wanted him to wrestle one class UP. He wrestled with a 7 year old who was much bigger and still came in second. I was so proud of him. I still get a little nervous when I watch fearing he will get hurt. I guess that's just natural, though.
Annie is just a doll and I am always glad when she comes over. She has a way of making me feel younger.
Tonight was the annual Hospice Banquet and, as our Funeral Home is a corporate sponsor, we had a table to fill! We all had a really nice time but as usual, in our business, our table fails to be full due to unexpected issues. One of my employees, Jimmy, got ill and had to leave early today so he and his wife were not able to be there. Then, Ken and Florence of course couldn't come due to his mother-in-law's serious illness. She is still on a ventilator and things are not looking very promising for her. I remain prayerful for them all and ask that you remember them, too.
I love this picture of Harold and Gwen taken tonight while sharing a laugh at something the speaker said. I took all these pictures with my i-phone and they turned out pretty good (for a phone).
Of course, there was a plea for donations and a basket on each table with contribution envelopes at the ready. Hospice performs such a needed and valuable service not only in our small community, but in many just like it scattered all over the U.S. I heard many stories tonight from the nurses, a volunteer and even a family member whom Hospice had served. We laughed and we cried, enjoyed a good meal and were reminded once again how fragile life is and how much we all need to help each other. I am fortunate to live in a community where such an organization is available to help in a time of need.
This is a picture of Florence and Ken who are very good friends of mine. Florence's mother is very ill and in the Intensive Care Unit at our local hospital. I'm not sure what happened since this happened today while I was gone, but I do know that it is very serious and I am praying for all of them. I firmly believe in the power of prayer and ask that my blogging friends who pray would remember them and their family tonight.
I try very hard NOT to write about politics or religion, but tonight I will put a slight bend in the road. As most of you know, I am a staunch Republican. I am also a big fan of Glenn Beck. Hence, during the 5 hours in the car today I listened to his radio broadcast. Agree with him or disagree, his show is almost always humorous and offers a lot of insight into the political goings-on. It seems Mr. Beck is highly irritated by the use of President Obama's tele-prompter. I listened intently to all the folks calling in to the program and agreeing that Mr. Obama does not seem sincere without it, that what he says "off the cuff" is almost always a polar opposite to his tele-prompted speeches, he never looks at the camera, etc. You get the message.
Oh, I do love the spring! Without a doubt summer will follow. I hope it will be a long one! These blooms are NOT from my yard (not time yet) but from a friends yard in south Florida. Sent just to make me jealous, no doubt.
No, no, these are not MY babies, but some I had a year ago. Aren't they adorable? It seems that it doesn't matter what I do, I just CANNOT keep a cat. So I thought I would try two at a time. No luck. They always run away or are kidnapped by cat thieves.
But hope "springs" eternal, and through a blogging friend that I haven't met yet, I will try yet again to keep a cat or two. Her cat is expecting a litter and I have an offer. I am so excited! Keep your fingers crossed for me. I REALLY want a cat that will stay with me.
This is a picture of my older brother and best friend all through life Rodney and me. I can hardly believe he hugged me! This is NOT a common thing for him to do. He is more of the pushing away kind of guy. He lives in southern Illinois now and has for the past several years and I don't get to see him much anymore. For some weird reason he thinks it is more important to make a living than to run back and forth to see his sister. I don't get that?
Now this is a picture of me when I was probably 17 years old. No, I never had the acne problem but I was never a raving beauty, either. I just like this picture because it's black and white and the fact that I can hardly remember being this young.
I remember THIS picture very well. I was about 35 and even though the hair looks "funny" today, it didn't look too bad that day. I think women are their most beautiful between the ages of 32-37.......course I could just be saying that about me.
And THIS is one of my favorite pictures of me with my Mom. I was actually living in Key West at the time and totally miserable in my life. She was, like all Moms, always there whenever she could be, to lift me up and make me feel secure in her love and protection for me. Of course, she still loves me, but Alzheimer's is stealing her away and now I am HER protector.
And this is my favorite picture of me with both my Mom and Dad. It was just a good day. We were at a family reunion in Nortonville, KY and I did NOT want to be there. They were so happy with each other back then. I still miss my Dad. I missed him growing up and I miss him now. The difference is that growing up there was always the hope that he would come back (and he did) but now I know he is with God and I won't see him in this place again. I will go to him.
My yard finally got mowed Friday, I think. I haven't been home one day or one night this entire past week so when I DO get here, I am usually surprised. I didn't even get my mail out of the box 3 or 4 days. If I don't sit down and pay bills I may lose some power, and it won't be due to the weather, either. Oops!
I did make it to a Republican Womans Club meeting one night this past week. The picture above is of Sandy, who is current President of the club. I always enjoy getting together with them and catching up on the "hot topics" in our community politically and also in our country. This time it was our local library and the possibility of a new tax to support it. No comment.
And I just thought this picture of the old fireplace at the funeral home in Crofton is so beautiful. It has a nice mantel, too. I'm sure there's a lot of history and a lot of stories that thing could tell. If only fireplaces could talk.
After 2 hours of hard driving I arrived at the hospital in time to find out that my sweet 14 year old girl had PASSED A KIDNEY STONE! I never dreamed 14 year olds even GOT kidney stones. The CT scan showed an extremely enlarged ureter and no stone but the Dr. says a stone passing is about the only thing he'd ever seen to cause that.

My daughter April has a great sister-in-law named Jo who happened to WIN tickets to see Disney on Ice in Lexington for last night. She wasn't able to go herself so passed the tickets on to my daughter. April's husband Bruce just returned from a week's fishing trip in Alabama and claimed to be too tird to go, so I got the invitation! (He really wanted to go to a friend's house and watch Louisville win the Big East tournament.)
It was a rainy, dreary 2 1/2 hour drive to the little town where I met up with April and the children. Everybody was hungry but decided to wait until we got to Lexington to eat since we had to keep an eye on the clock and weren't sure how long the drive was. Tom-Tom is not ALWAYS a reliable old fella.
Tristin really thinks he looks pretty cool with his hat on backwards but the truth is, he said he just didn't feel like "fixing" his hair yesterday. Man, that kid cracks me up sometimes. Thank goodness his rash caused from the reaction to his medication has finally cleared up. He lost a tooth one day last week but the new one is already bigger than the baby tooth was so he had to show me which one is was.
The show itself was a regular Disney extravaganza and was fabulous in every way. We all loved watching the skaters with their spectacular routines. I was shocked (and I don't know why) at how obscenely expensive everything was. Of course I was prepared, but I was still shocked. Popcorn was $15. (it had gold crown attached to it), snow cones were $10 (in a commemorative mug), the program was $15.......you get the gist of it. Ridiculous but grandmothers have well-known reputations for being suckers.
My Kristin girl even had a good time. She is growing up so fast! Her braces come off TOMORROW after more than 2 years and she is ready. She has an appointment when she leaves the orthodontist's office to go straight to her hygienist and have them cleaned. She has promised to send pictures and I can hardly wait.
My niece Bunny LIKES this picture of me with double chin intact writing away but I think its' one of the worst ever made.
Been thinking a little today about marriage and my utter failure(s) at that highly overrated institution. Well okay, I've been to church tonight and got a good dose of scripture referring to the aforementioned.
Once upon a time, I married a great guy and had two wonderful children. But as time passed, he began to change and I began to change, only not in the same direction. Our eventual divorce changed not only our lives, but the lives of our children. If I had it to do over again, I would have stayed in that disaster at least until the children were grown, maybe even always, just for them. The divorce was still the right thing for us personally, but not for them. There are sacrifices, and then there are sacrifices.
Then when I was in my mid-30's, I married a man that my family disliked immediately upon introduction. I never knew why (and still don't) but I was madly in love. It was a difficult time period (seven years) but I did love him deeply. He eventually moved on to someone he thought he loved more and that was EXTREMELY hard for me to swallow and get through to the other side.
The other side being where I am now. I am divorced and have been since he left. 12 years now, I think. I have finally figured out who I really am and what makes me happy. My family, my church, my friends and sometimes even my job. But most of all I figured out that I don't need someone ELSE to make me happy. I can be happy within myself. Besides that, I have gotten comfortable with ME and I am no longer willing to adapt to someone else's little peculiarities.
Back to church tonight and scripture.....I made a LOT of mistakes along the way and all kidding aside, marriage is to be sacred and honored between two people who make a life together. I'm just not willing to risk the hurt again.....
I also understand from the weather reports that these cloudy skies I see in this picture are bringing behind them a cold front and that tomorrow will be totally unlike today was, of course. The poor tree suffered a lot of damage from the ice storm but I had a friend with a chain saw who came and took care of the worst of it not long after the storm and the rest will just wait.
After my walk and starting to prepare dinner tonight, I decided to catch up on my blogging friends and thus begins tonight's story.Kristi is a faithful blogger and I soon became wrapped up in the comings and goings of the Johnson home and her daily walk with Christ, her family and their efforts to "Bring Lucy Home". After MANY months of red tape and the almost unbearable wait, she got a call today saying their baby's biological mother had returned and changed her mind. She has taken her baby back home with her.
I feel so many conflicting emotions on this night. Great aching sadness for Kristi and her family. They had come to love a child they had never held. They have her pictures everywhere, though. Most assuredly stamped on their hearts. I have cried for them tonight.
But there is surely great joy in this mother's home tonight as she is reunited with a daughter she could not bear to part with in the end. It is always right for a parent and child to be together bound by an unspeakable love.
I know there will be another baby for Kristi, but I also know she was in love with THIS baby. This baby who was already a part of her family.
I have not yet met Kristi in person, even though there is an event to which I have been invited that I eagerly anticipate. You see, I already care about her and I haven't even met her yet. I wish I could ease her pain somehow on this night and give her the grace and great parenting skills to help explain this new turn of events to her children in a way that might help them grow and learn.
This is a Family Picture of Mike, Gail and their adopted son Frank
A few of Gail's friends looking really Happy????
Sam Leonard
Kristin and her cousin Austin
5 inches and still coming down!